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Office hours, address, rates and client testimonials are listed. She was always there. So I try to keep the lines of communication totally open. If she asks me I tell her the truth, whether I like the subject or not, I feel she needs to trust me. But I feel horrible when I do!!! I tell her I am not perfect and I am sorry… and I know I should not get angry and yell.
People can be really stupid sometimes. I just want to scream and ask them are they crazy?? She tells me how all the kids joke about how they can cause trouble and get out of class to go play games with her. Many Parents have expressed their dislike for her as well. Where do I start. Thank you for getting back so quickly this evening, if feels good to talk to someone unbiased in their oppinion because they know us.
You have noticed that the notion of being heard proves more healing than advice. When you provide as much to your daughter she responds better than when her dad tells her to either cheer up or to change her behavior toward you. Likewise if friends and family would truly listen to what you are feeling and saying you would be able to feel safe and connected; this empowers us to know what is best and, more importantly, to be able to do it.
Research suggests that blood flow to the good decision-making, and socially adept connecting, aspects of the brain drops off when blood flows to the more primitive part of the brain—the one that governs anger and fear. Thus we really are a bit less intelligent when we are angry or scared and are not even necessarily aware that we are being irrational in those dark and all too human moments.
For thoughts on anger management see: With regard to allowing regression vs. But as I say, it all depends. Sometimes people change their behavior because of an underlying medical condition, or because of a secret they are holding. As for finding a good counselor one can afford it may make sense to first determine who you would see if money was no object. From there you could call this person and explain your situation, tell them what you can afford and ask them to please make a referral to the best option you can afford.
This might be an intern who is being well supervised by a senior therapist; this might be a low-fee clinic in the community, perhaps you find someone who has space in their practice for a sliding scale client. Part of this equation includes checking with your insurance, if you have insurance, to see what they would pay and to whom.
Add the most you feel you could afford in addition to your reimbursement and you have the fee you could afford. When it comes to therapy, just like other professionals you would consult, you want the best you can afford rather than the cheapest you can find. Another option would be calling a local university to see if they have a counseling center. Often that center might have referrals of therapists in the community at your price point.
Finally, research suggests that mindfulness practices, such as yoga or meditation, are effective for anxiety, depression and a host of emotional struggles. Often this is money and time very well spent. Thank you so much… I have had classes on adult children of alchoholics etc…. As you so perfectly said sometimes we have a hard time repressing our feelings, I have gotten much better at not yelling as it just fuels the fire and accomplishes absolutely nothing!!
I will continue to encourage her to sleep in her room, and what you said makes sense to me. I feel like I am on the right path to helping her be her happy self again, with or without daddy. I feel like I need to teach her that. That no matter what he does he loves her and me and she needs to know that. He will always be a big part of her life.
I will research therapists. I am so thankful I found this blog. I feel a new sense of confidence in what I need to do for my daughter and myself. She can even do kid yoga classes. Still a lot of work to do but thank you for your help in guiding me to helping her and even myself to be a better mom! This is a heart-breaking message and I am sorry that you have found your way, alone, to this site meant for parents to be helping children.
I have known many children who have hurt like you do, and you do need help to stay safe and to heal. What you can do right now is call I spoke with them this evening and they are expecting your call. Another option, if you do not feel safe, is to call and tell them what you have written here. I know sometimes you do not get the help the system promises, but please do not give up.
Finally, I encourage you to hang in and find a way to get through this pain and to grow up and then you can help other kids get through their pain—this is how we can have a better world. I think you want to live and to have the life you deserve. Believe it or not, your parents love you somewhere in their hurt and angry hearts, just as you love them even though they hurt you.
So, please do call , they are experts at helping with just this sort of problem. Maybe someday we will all care about each other better and all this hurting might stop. Please hang in and be part of this. Emily do not give up!!!!! There is always somehting brighter out there waiting for you! I need some help. I have a friend, but this friend lives in another country.
He has attempted suicide before, and is still in depression and has been for quite awhile. I try to get him to talk about it, I listen and I try solutions. Hi to you as well. This, in and of itself, strikes me as beautiful. This is the world we want to live in; the world of fear and materialism, of alienation and despair is the world your friend is ambivalent about staying around for.
As with childhood and life birth, weaning, adolescence, launching, marriage, kids, loss and death transitions are the places we grow, and they are the places we break down. If you can intuit the place your friend is trying to arrive at i. There is a difference between simply not being dead yet and being truly alive.
Yet dealing with the profound pain and anger of suicidality can be too much for an untrained, but loving friend. The pain of others can be very heavy—too much to carry for just one person. This is why linking in ways that are compassionate may help us all stay alive and learn how to love and enjoy our lives together.
Thus I welcome your own burden of concern to this space, not that I can particularly hold it, but that we can create spaces to hold our collective pain and then not be as inclined toward violence, be it toward our selves or toward others. In terms of direct help, you can urge your friend to call the suicide hot-lines linked to this blog. You could also call the suicide hotline and ask them for direct advice in response to the things your friend is saying to you.
Perhaps you might be able to make it a conference call with your friend. Finally, although you do not know the exact location, you could work to contact the local hospital or police in their country and see if they would be willing to communicate with this person by whatever link you have to them phone, internet, etc. Maybe you would learn of some community resources in their country of which your friend is as yet unaware.
While we cannot stop someone who is determined to hurt themselves, we can hear their pain and not turn a blind eye. It sounds like you are in a lot of pain and confusion. It would not hurt to call the suicide hotline and tell them what you think and feel and see what they say.
Many people who feel like you later realize that they do not want to stop living so much as they do not want to and feel that they cannot any longer live in such pain. Our pain guides us. Your pain provoked you to leave this message that sounds hopeless, but there is a glimmer of hope in the fact that you even bother to express your despair. I have come to respect and appreciate the raw honesty in such messages.
You need to talk to people who understand how terrible you feel, and the suicide hotline is an ideal start. They are volunteers and have nothing to gain from you, they just are there to help people like you who feel they have no hope. Whatever you decide, I send you Warm Best Wishes often those who make it through these dark nights of the soul are later able to turn around and help others as they cross this dreadful bridge.
My 4 year old says all the time at least x every couple of weeks that he wants to kill himself or he is gonna stab or shoot me his mother or his grandmother. I dont know where he gets it at he is just in pre school, His teachers say he is the best kid in the class which doesnt make sense becasue at home is is terribly out of control and mean and rude to everyone.
Hes not aloud to watch any movies with violence He only watches cartoons and nobody around him ever says accusations like this. It worries me to death he will actually do it one day thinking he will come back from the dead because he doesnt understand death that once you die there is no coming back. He has everything he ask for a Wii, four wheelers, trampoline, and swing set anything he wants he gets.
I think its my fault because Ive just got my fe back on track Ive been clean from being a drugaddict for the last 2 years and 1mth and 7days Ive been clean and me and his father broke up because he didnt want the same life as I did I wanted to get my son back and have a better life becasue my mom had custody of him at the time now my mother has him mon-thurs nad I have him thurs night-Sunday night.
His dad is also in jail has been for the past year and 7mths we havent told my son we told him his dad was at work so he wouldnt worry but he constantly says hes unhappy and when he leaves from my house when my mom comes to pick him up he throws a trantrum jumps out of the vehicle while its moving and wants to stay here with me but I call asap when shes at home and she says hes absolutley fine.
Im confused does he want attention or is he really capable ofkilling himself or someone else. I also noticed grey hair in his head about a month ago and there more and more every time I look in his head what does that mean? Thank you for your time and please return my answers to my questions or email me a.
Yes children this young are capable of hurting themselves, so it would be appropriate to speak with those in your community who might have the skills and resources to help your family heal further. Perhaps your child is suffering from what we might call disorganized attachment see previous post: As he matures you may, much later, be able to apologize for how your addiction caused him to be unable to rely on you when his brain was first developing.
His dad, if in jail for a violent offense, may have also intermittently frightened your boy. Our prisons are filled with people who needed help and love and instead got shame and violence. When people who are neurologically on the low-sensitive side of things i.
For example when he says he hates his life, you might reflect back to him that it is so terribly painful to hate our lives. You might consistently reflect back to him that he feels bad, and like a bad child. Read stories, play games, hang out. You would benefit from parenting classes and from therapy for you.
Hopefully your AA sponsor might have some connections or suggestions. Also, Al-anon would be helpful, working on setting boundaries and better understanding the patterns of your own trauma and wounds so they can heal. Finally, perhaps my book would be helpful. My son is 17 yrs old and when he was 15 and in the 9th grade two boys assaulted him by beating him in school in front of everyone.
They thought he was someone else. The boys bragged about it and continued to tault him for the rest of the school year. Now my son continually talks about killing himself and hurting others. I have had him in with a doctor but no one seems to do anything, the school never stopped the boys, the court of law ask me to be forgiving in which I said no to.
I walk on egg shells because I never know when he is going to go off. I could not get help from the school, and in court they tried to act like my son did something wrong, but the boys were charged anyway. One kid was given a deal because he could not go into the Pharmancy program with an assault charge so they made him pay his fine and do his community service outside of the courts and nothing would show up on his record.
What do I do with my son and how can he get back to the way he used to be before this happened? Firstly, I am so sorry that you and your son are going through such pain. I will stay out of the legal aspects, other than to say that we do seem to have a lot more emphasis on punishment and there is money made in this than we do on prevention or treatment.
For more on this see: Perhaps as the parent you could discuss this with the doctor, perhaps even working yourself with the doctor to better understand your son and gain more effective tools to help him heal. Things to consider in this discussion would include wondering if your boy suffers from post traumatic stress disorder, and if so, what might help.
Other issues to consider include self-esteem, and how to help raise this, and also depression, as depression in adolescent males tends to present with anger and irritability as much as overt sadness. Sometimes the sort of pain you and your son are experiencing, if healed and transcended, can be the foundation for true compassion and the path of helping others.
I have worked with many kids who have hurt others, and many who have been hurt, but none who aggress have been free of pain and hurt in their own lives. Hello… My year-old son recently had his heart broken. What has happened since then is horrific, and I am seeking help for my son. He told this girl that he was going to hurt himself and sent her pictures of his wrist cut up.
I talked to him at length letting him know that feeling as he did was horrible and hard to deal with but that I was there for him and I would help him get through it. He hugged me and cried and said he would wait a bit longer before doing anything! So the dialogue continued until he decided he had talked enough.
He knows his talking to a professional is non negational. He starts high school in three days and will be seeing this girl. He is also o. Lots of emotions going through his adolescent brain. The fact he said he wanted to end the pain by killing himself shocked me and my heart broke in two. The cutting up his wrist and sending the photo to the girl also broke me down, just knowing how hurt he was feeling.
Since school is just going to start this week I am going to contact the school psychologist and his counselor and also get a recommendation for someone outside of school. He actually cried in front of me today and told me all these things and how dying would put him at peace. Is there anything else I should do?
Should I have taken him right to the hospital at the time, which I was going to do until he begged me to get him to practice?? Football is all he has right now because things are even stressful at home. Will you let me know whenever you have a chance if I should be doing something else? As I outline in my comments on the post above, you can certainly call the suicide hotline to get additional support, and you can also call at any time you feel your kid is not safe.
It sounds like there is a lot of stress in the family economics, change to high school, etc. With a break-up on top of it all it is a very powerful confluence of pain and uncertainty. The adolescent brain can be particularly impulsive, and this makes self-harm possibilities all the more frightening and uncertain.
To a large degree you are helping your kid by feeling his pain, fear and uncertainty. This can be containing. Having him promise you that he will talk to you about his feelings before any more self-harm behaviors is a good plan and part of the solution. The suicide hotline might better guide you in real-time and with direct feedback about assessing the current danger levels, possible methods he might think about and how to minimize those risks.
Also, keep in mind that suicidal behaviors can have a level of anger in them i. This may be unconscious, but a good relationship with a counselor is certainly a great idea in the very near term. Thank you for your speedy reply. I will be sleeping nearby him as he seems off again tonight and will follow your advice about the hotline. He is so sad and these emotions are new to him; he feels rejected and it is a feeling he cannot handle on his own.
Thank you for your advice…I will do whatever it takes to make sure he is safe…. Hello Bruce, Your website is a blessing and you should be proud of your words of advice and insight that comfort those who seek them. My 17 year old son told me yesterday that he thinks of suicide often this past month especially.
He is a good kid, sensitive, smart, good-looking kid. I think he goes out with her only for something to do. Last month he made a stupid mistake and got thrown off his Lacrosse team. The punishment was severe but he did something against the rules and there is a zero-tolerance policy. He loved being on that team and being a crucial part of it.
Yesterday he had a huge fight with his girlfriend because he wanted to go to practice but she wanted him to be with her. He went over her house and yelled at her inappropriately and went to practice. I told him he was wrong to yell at her and that it was abusive. He went hysterical on me and started to tell me about his suicidal thoughts.
We are meeting with his Pediatrician today but I am nervous that they will want to send him to a hospital or put him on a prescription. I want him to get the help he needs, but sometimes I feel the solutions add to the feeling of being different for the lack of a better word. I checked on him all night and he slept soundly.
I afraid to talk it over with someone because unfortunately the stigma of mental health issues still prevails. Believe it or not, Coaches, teachers are afraid of this subject and cannot help but judge, even though they are sympathetic. In a year from now he will be going off to college and that will only be more pressures and feelings of inadequacy. Should I try to discourage going to college maybe put it off a year?
Continue the process for college and see where his emotional state is in Spring? Thank you for your kind words. Let me begin with expressing my empathy and compassion for you and your son. You are both suffering at the moment and thus you both need understanding and support even more than advice. Some of the concerns you raise have to do with the societal context in which our children, and we parents, try to find support and a path and I think we can only do our best and, perhaps, later discover that we were not alone in our perceived loneliness and dread of being losers.
You present an interesting picture of a boy who has drama and powerful attachments with single women you, then his girlfriend but struggles to have true friends rather than just be parts of a team. Perhaps your son is in the midst of this painful lesson? With college a year away he is smart enough to begin panicking ahead of time about separating from you and his girlfriend ; you too probably have mixed feelings about preparing to let him launch we all do as parents.
On top of this the college application process is all about rejection and fear in the minds of many scared high schoolers again, not much evidence of team in all this, more like every kid for himself or herself, resulting in a feeling of every kid BY himself or herself. I mention all this because if you can accurately understand what you son is feeling it may contribute to his feeling safer and more connected.
I did not lead with remarks on safety as you are already doing the key things to keep him safe. The book is hundreds of pages and thus a better format than a response to a comment on a blog in which to deeply address the nuances of your concerns. My hope in my writing is that I might arm parents with deep understanding, and even a chance to grow and heal in their own rights through the process of parenting.
My ultimate aim is to participate in positive social change by helping support parents and kids even earlier in the parenting cycle pregnancy and first years to establish greater safety and security all around. Your son is not alone, you are not alone—and that you think you are or feel that you are is both a tragedy and an opportunity.
Our pain and concern and love for our children bring us together. Give your boy hugs and try to understand life as he experiences it. Keep his safety as the top priority and get him through this. If you learn something new that other parents can use, report back and share that with whoever may later come across the threads of this conversation. Thank you for your kind words and advice.
My hope is that my son and I get through this stronger and wiser. I will keep you posted on his and my progress. She is only 9. We are always expressing a sort of emotional truth, and while you want her to know how important she is to you, she wants you to know how she feels alone, in pain, etc. Still, you must take all talk of self-harm seriously.
My four year old son has recently been saying and doing things at daycare that has raised our concerns. It started with him holding a plastic knife to a babydolls head acting out the motions of stabbing the doll, they asked him what he was doing and he told him he was killing Katelyn which is his sister.
Then he said he wanted to kill himself because his mommy is mean to him. Also they told me he drew a cat then scribbled aggressively on the cat, they asked him why he did that, he said he did not like the cat. They believe he needs to see someone because he is angree. He was our only child then we had twins. At home we do not see this behavior, it seems to only be when he is at daycare.
I asked him what killing means and why he says that, he explained to me they are not his best friend. I know he does not know what it means to die…… I am not sure if he needs help or if he is playing. I do not want to make a big deal if I do not need to. Then again I do not want to miss an opportunity to help him if he needs help…..!!! He says everything is his knife…not sure if this is just his imagination or if this means something for a 4 year old?????
Perhaps the Daycare can recommend a therapist for you to meet with and evaluate the situation more carefully. While your boy may just be acting out his feelings, those feelings are scaring him and thus he is scaring the folks at the daycare, who just want to be sure that he, and the other children too, are safe. Knives can be used to hurt, but they also can be used to cut one thing from another like an umbilical cord.
To individuate is to become our own person, and we practice doing this at varying levels throughout our lives; yet our individuation allows us to connect with everyone sort of like all the cells in the body are unique cells, but they comprise one body. The reason I might suggest a therapist for yourself is to take a deeper look about any unresolved hurt, trauma or anger that you may carry, particularly related to the period of life when you were in preschool.
As the post above emphasizes, you must take this sort of thing seriously and put safety above all else. But if after you do that it turns out that your boy simply needs help managing his aggressive and hurt feelings then perhaps a safe space and way for him to do that will help. That makes you want the babies and the bad feelings to just go away. Something like that may help your child feel validated and understood, which might make him feel more loved, which might make him feel less alone, hurt, angry or destructive.
We are all very interested in fairness, but especially at preschool age. Conversely he could feel resentful at school perhaps some struggles with social relating? My nearly 16 year old daughter continually writes on her Facebook to her friends that she has tried to commit suicide taking pills but that a friend found her and this friend again told me and she was saved.
This is a total lie as it has never happened. Why does she tell such lies to 15 year old girls? I really find it worrying and not at all a nice thing to lie about. She has also been cutting herself on a few occasions. Why is she writing all those lies? What does it mean? Hope you can help me as it depresses me reading it. I am sorry that your daughter, and you, are suffering like this.
Given that a lot of suicide, particularly with young people, is impulsive action, often mis-calculation, we still have to take these signs seriously. Speaking to the school counselor, or private counselor, would be appropriate because even if her behavior is attention seeking we want to help her feel safe, seen, loved and understood so she can grow, enjoy her life and contribute to the group.
Finally, you could check out chapter 7 of my book http: My 15 year daughter is acting with two different personalities and does not accept help at all, whether it is an advice or professional help. She says she doesnt have a problem, that the problem is me.
I recently found a blog she has been writing that focuses on suicide, and she says she will kill herself on the day she was given life which is next Monday. I shared the blog with my pastor… but do not know what to do. When she found out I learned about her suicidal writings, she almost hit me on the face and will not accept any help —much less professional— I am desperate.
What can I do? Your girl sounds very unhappy and it is hard to know if she is attention seeking or crying out for help even if she pushes that help away when offered.
Additionally, while she is not ready to go yet, some sort of 12 step recovery is likely to be part of her future if she is fortunate enough to have a future. Thank you for referring your friends and associates. Effective leaders keep their self-control in the face of chaos and pressure.
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